Keeping your toddler smiling, entertained and calm can be difficult during a move. There are two main things to remember when moving with toddlers. First, they will pick up on your moods and emotions. So, if mom or dad are stressed, then they probably will be too. Secondly, sticking to a routine will help give your child a sense of security in what can be an unsettling time.
1. Communication
Talk to your toddler about the move. Explaining what it means will help them process the information. Read them a story about moving, or perhaps act it out with their toys and stuffed animals. Keep your explanations clear and simple.
2. Have a Plan
Begin your moving process at least two months before your move date. Create an organized checklist and thorough budget and stick to them. Having a plan will reduce your stress level and in turn, help keep your toddler calm as well.
3. Maintain Meal Times
You can set a clock by when a toddler gets hungry. So, it is important to keep their meal times on track and feed them according to their regular schedule. Plan meals in advance and create an alarm on your phone to make sure that you break away from packing or other activities to make sure your child has his scheduled meal.
4. Get Them Involved
Let your child help with the move. Have them decorate a cardboard box then personalize it with stickers and crayons. Help them pack some of their favorite toys into their special box. Or, use color-coded stickers or labels for each room. An adult can assist with sticking them on the correct boxes.
5. Take Time to Say Goodbye
Take some photos and create a scrapbook of the old house. Include pictures of favorite rooms, hiding places, swing sets and other spots with special memories. These photos will provide comfort when at the new home.
6. Ask for Help
Recruit friends and family to help with the move. Packing up your whole life can take time, so asking people that you love to help will make it more fun. Or, ask a family member to babysit or entertain your toddler for the day. A sitter can also help assure that your toddler will be safely out of the movers’ way.
7. Moving Day Treat
Distraction can also be a useful tool. Add into your budget a new toy for your child that you can give to them during the move. They’ll be fascinated with what is in front of them rather than what is going on around them.
8. Last On, First Off
Pack up their room last, so that they still have toys to play with. Give them a small backpack that they can fill with their favorite toys for the car journey to the new home. When at your new house, unload their items first and create a ‘play space’ especially for them in their new room.
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Follow these simple tips for a happy move with your toddler. We’re ready to help you make your move seamless and stress-free, contact us for a quote today.